True Presence
Reclaiming human connection in a digital age
In today’s tech-driven world, we’re constantly interrupted by notifications, emails, and updates from our phones, smartwatches, health apps, and more. The question isn’t whether technology has invaded our lives – it has. The real question is whether we’re allowing it to steal our most precious moments.
Think back to your last dinner with a friend or your child’s performance. Did your phone buzz? Did you instinctively reach for it? In that moment, the people you are with become secondary.
Our devices often prevent us from fully engaging with our loved ones, potentially weakening these important relationships. And what do we lose? Research consistently shows that having strong social connections reduces stress, accelerates healing, and even extends life.
The Solution: Create Irreplaceable Memories
The antidote to this digital challenge is simple – be fully present with the people who matter to you most. Shared experiences, especially live ones, create lasting memories and deepen connections.
Whether it’s dinner and a play or seeing a band with friends, the magic happens in shared moments when the plot takes an unexpected turn, laughing together at a perfectly timed joke, or being collectively moved by a powerful scene. This is what makes live events powerful so that in years to come, you’ll say, “Remember when we saw…?” and smile.
Local Opportunities to Connect
Looking for ways to start creating unforgettable moments?
Girls’ Night Out:
Gather with friends for dinner and a show. A great example is Momz of Comedy at Primos Locos in Elmhurst on September 4. Expect plenty of laughter and connections. Tickets are available at www.ecpa-elmhurst.org.
Family Traditions:
Broadcaster John St. Augustine recalls a pivotal moment from childhood: “In 1972, my parents took me to see ‘Fiddler on the Roof’ at the Mill Run Theater. I had memorized every song from my dad’s soundtrack. When the lights dimmed, and Gene Barry appeared as Tevye singing ‘Tradition,’ I was completely immersed. That experience sparked a lifelong love of theater. Movies and music move us, but live performances create unforgettable connections that last a lifetime.”
Community Connections:
Tony Gambino, managing partner of First Course Productions, sees this firsthand at Doc’s in Elmhurst, where community members gather for karaoke every first Friday of the month. “ The laughter is infectious,” he says. “You can feel the joy of people connecting.”
Share Your Story: We Want to Hear from You
We’re currently collecting inspiring stories for two upcoming features:
It’s Never Too Late: Have you found extra time in retirement to pursue a dream? We’re seeking stories from people who’ve taken up acting, music, or other performing arts later in life. Please share your joy and the transformation that has occurred.
Spotlight on Young Performers: Has the performing arts transformed your child’s life? Tell us how theater, music, dance, or other creative outlets helped build confidence, open new doors, or change the trajectory of a young person’s future.
We can’t wait to hear from you. Please share your stories with us at [email protected].
